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And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future.
So you made a wise decision.
No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. Nor was there a lack of compassion or respect.